Despite appearances, loneliness poses a greater risk for early death in the elderly than weight because of its detrimental effects on health. Older adults who experience loneliness may become socially isolated, feel sad or afraid, or develop depression or other neurological disorders.
For a person to be in good physical and mental health, they must interact with other people. From the moment of our birth, our family and friends are always there for us. We experience a sense of belonging to a group that adores us and provides us with affection, company, and support. We can’t live without one another.
One of the terrifying issues as we age is loneliness. Home care can lessen loneliness when families cannot give their relatives the care they want and desire. This is because the caregiver who provides care at home is selected based on a number of factors, including how well their personality complements the individual for whom they will be providing care. As a result, friendships develop.
Effects of loneliness on older people
How does loneliness impact the senior citizens? Recent research suggests that people release the stress hormone cortisol when they experience feelings of loneliness and isolation. This causes blood pressure to rise, sleeplessness, and worsening depressive symptoms.
It has been demonstrated that when someone feels alone, it is hard for them to function independently, and they may even become hostile or withdrawn. If the issue is not resolved right away, it becomes more challenging for them to receive treatment.
These feelings can cause cardiovascular diseases and even have an impact on the immune and endocrine systems, according to additional studies done at this time by the University of Chicago.
When it comes to feelings and actions, loneliness has a significant negative impact on older people’s self-esteem and disposition to the point where they lose their desire to engage with others, entertain themselves, and form relationships. Older people who live alone and are cut off from society are greeted by fear and sadness.
Unwanted loneliness in older people
The worst type of loneliness is what is referred to as “unwanted loneliness,” which occurs when a senior citizen stops receiving frequent visits or when someone very close to them, such as their partner, children, or friends, permanently departs.
The onset of dementia, memory loss, and the loss of social abilities like speech are some of the most concerning effects of loneliness, for which special consideration must be made. Because of this, it is advised to keep elderly people engaged and social.
Elderly home care aims to replace that missing companionship because loneliness attacks everyone equally and almost always in the same way, regardless of social class, ethnicity, or gender:
- The will to live is lost.
- You long for a past that will not return.
- The feeling of not being useful is created, of not feeling listened to or of not belonging to “something.”
In-home elderly caregivers are the best option if families don’t have the time they think their elderly loved ones deserve. They are skilled in giving the best care and supporting your relative’s growth in self-worth, independence, and self-sufficiency.
Tips to help older people who feel lonely
Family and friends should support the person and motivate them to exercise regularly, eat healthfully, and engage in activities with other seniors.
To make them feel heard, taken care of, valued, and happy, the company is essential in preventing the dangers that loneliness can pose to senior citizens. In order to ensure a high quality of life for the elderly, social relationships are crucial. They must be made to understand they are not alone.
In senior living facilities and centers, there are a variety of activities and workshops to keep seniors engaged and in regular contact with people their own age. Remember to include family activities; they enjoy being with those they care about the most.
Lost my husband the love of my life 15 months ag, still trying to figure out life with out him. Some days are harder than others. Coming out of those dark days that creep up is not easy.
My heart goes out to you Delma. The love will never be the same but I hope you are able to find some friendships to get you through. Sending loving vibes!
My mom will absolutely NOT participate in activities in the facility where she currently lives. She was always so smart and had a high ranking job for 30 years. I’m retiring in December and taking her home to live with me. She has Alzheimers but still does fairly well, and I have experience working in nursing homes and mental health facilities as nursing assistant and activities director. I think I can handle her ok, but if she starts getting violent she’s going back. I’m just not pleased with the care she’s getting at the assisted living; I mean they won’t help her get dressed or anything! One day I went in and she had on three shirts and two pairs of pants but no under clothes of any kind (she is becoming more and more incontinent). The could at least check to see that she has on her pull ups. Starting in January we will be visiting the senior center (we have the best in the state in my county) and participating in various church activities like crafting and fundraisers. Plus she’ll eat the food I cook.